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A quick update and some words. First off, and most importantly, Jeff and I went to his doc this afternoon for the results of the biopsy performed on his thyroid a a couple weeks ago. The growths are benign. This was a huge parting of dark clouds for us. Still needing to be addressed is the cause of and the symptoms (tiredness and lethargy primarily) from these growths. This will take place in the near future. Thankfully there is no push for surgery and treatments the worst of the news would have brought upon him. So, I can't yell "YAY!" loud enough or from too high of a mountaintop as an expression of relief and joy.
Now I can get on with my own health issues. These have gotten me quite bummed, but I will work it out.
And here's the part when I stand humbled, with hat in hand. In my post from a while back I lamented my dissatisfaction and disappointment in regards to "social media" and its varied and uncertain value to me at times. Well, in the posts since, I was (once again) reminded of the value of the phenomenon. While I still feel that it often exacerbates the disconnect I feel between friends because of the inevitable distances involved, there is no denying the connections offered. There are real people, with true concerns and even love at the other end of the posts, comments and messages. Yeah, I get frustrated that people I know I'd have an awesome time being around are hundreds or thousands (or even just a few) of miles away. So, I will try harder to measure the real folks with real words coming from the glow of my screen against the occasional disappointment I feel because they are not in the same room. I will also endeavor to rectify the latter as much as possible with more travel, trips and invitations. I might have been rather quiet here as far as followup replies to comments and such, but rest assured your words have a definite effect. And I loves yas all for it.
So, it's with a bit of extra sunshine that the plans we've been making for travel and fun despite what has been unfolding for the past few months. We've got tix to see Elton John this weekend, Cirque du Soleil's Totem in a couple months, four trips to Hillside and an extended trip to PTown. And we'll do more I'm sure. And I hope to make real more of the virtual connections I have.
I humbly thank each and every one who have left words of concern and encouragement. You've done more for me than you know. And, well, more than *I* know at times.
Peace.
Now I can get on with my own health issues. These have gotten me quite bummed, but I will work it out.
And here's the part when I stand humbled, with hat in hand. In my post from a while back I lamented my dissatisfaction and disappointment in regards to "social media" and its varied and uncertain value to me at times. Well, in the posts since, I was (once again) reminded of the value of the phenomenon. While I still feel that it often exacerbates the disconnect I feel between friends because of the inevitable distances involved, there is no denying the connections offered. There are real people, with true concerns and even love at the other end of the posts, comments and messages. Yeah, I get frustrated that people I know I'd have an awesome time being around are hundreds or thousands (or even just a few) of miles away. So, I will try harder to measure the real folks with real words coming from the glow of my screen against the occasional disappointment I feel because they are not in the same room. I will also endeavor to rectify the latter as much as possible with more travel, trips and invitations. I might have been rather quiet here as far as followup replies to comments and such, but rest assured your words have a definite effect. And I loves yas all for it.
So, it's with a bit of extra sunshine that the plans we've been making for travel and fun despite what has been unfolding for the past few months. We've got tix to see Elton John this weekend, Cirque du Soleil's Totem in a couple months, four trips to Hillside and an extended trip to PTown. And we'll do more I'm sure. And I hope to make real more of the virtual connections I have.
I humbly thank each and every one who have left words of concern and encouragement. You've done more for me than you know. And, well, more than *I* know at times.
Peace.
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And *hugs* to you in dealing with your own health issues.
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That's a relief!
Now I understand why you've felt like leaving LJ.
It's the distance thing.
On other sites, distance bothers me!
Not on Live Journal.
I've gotten to know great people (Such as yourself!) through here.
I like this site much better than Bear411, Silver Daddies, or any Beard Site I've been on.
Here, I actually get to know people - as much as one can do online - and there is so much more of a chance to actually talk on the phone and perhaps even meet through Live Journal.
Why?
Because, unlike all the Gay Sex Sites, we actually talk about things besides sex. We share our daily lives, our hopes & dreams, our fears, our bad news,
and our achievements.
And yes, we do talk about sex! And so much more.
We offer encouragement, support, friendship, and a good old fashioned lent ear.
I feel infinitely more comfortable here than ANY other site I've ever been on, Phil, and you should, too!
I'd still like to meet you. You're only about as far away from me as The Farm was before George and I moved there full time in June, 1993. It was a 129
mile trek each way. No biggie for me to traverse that again.
*Sigh*.. I do wish we ALL lived in the same city, though. Wouldn't that be great!?
*ULTRA-HUGS*
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Thanks for making my day, bud!
Big furry hugs to ya! And to Jeff, too!
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Also very happy to hear that you are able to work out the other issues, as well.
Great big hugs to you and thanks for being here.
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HUGS!
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I have been on LJ for almost 8 years now. One of the things I have learned is that internet friendships are fundamentally different from real-life friendships, ~like apples and oranges. LJ friendships can't and shouldn't be a substitute for real-life friendships, and shouldn't be held to the same expectations. But that doesn't mean that LJ friendships don't have great value in and of themselves. LJ is a wonderful place if you are looking for support, encouragement, a sympathetic ear, a sounding board, a shoulder to cry on a forum for discussion. But if you are looking for companionship or a good bear hug, real-life friends would be more helpful.
I have enjoyed getting to know you here on LJ, Phil, and value you as one of my LJ friends, so I hope you will continue to stick around!
Even though it's not as good as the real thing: ...*hug*
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it sure would be great to meet you both.
i hope that you love elton john's show as much as i did!
big hugs!!!
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Big hugs from Vancouver!
:o)
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Now you need to work on yourself.
Hugs!