From
airbearma: “Where
champdaddy asked what turns you on, my question is the opposite. What is a big turn off for you?”
Oddly enough, it would not necessarily be the diagonal opposite of what turns me on; I dont mind small and skinny at all. I think the worst for me is seeing someone who does not want to make something out of themselves. Being lazy, negative, keeping in poor health. Poor hygiene is a turn off, as is self righteousness. Being negative all the time and unable to see their own value. Telling me what their personalities are and not letting me formulate my own opinion. Putting themselves down when it's obvious to me they are not what they are claiming. I think y'all get the idea.
Oddly enough, it would not necessarily be the diagonal opposite of what turns me on; I dont mind small and skinny at all. I think the worst for me is seeing someone who does not want to make something out of themselves. Being lazy, negative, keeping in poor health. Poor hygiene is a turn off, as is self righteousness. Being negative all the time and unable to see their own value. Telling me what their personalities are and not letting me formulate my own opinion. Putting themselves down when it's obvious to me they are not what they are claiming. I think y'all get the idea.