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Or as I like to call it, Happy T!

I don't have to reiterate how my life has taken a bad turn lately, I'm trying to plod on regardless. Jeff is at work, this had not been planned, he decided to help out for a portion of today and tomorrow, but home well in time to relax, have dinner and yell at the various football games on teevee. I managed to put the (free-range, natural-fed, solar power processed) turkey we get every year from the farm across the road into the oven. The procedure was about as clumsy as that sentence, as I pulled the heavy Magnaware roasting pot from the fridge that was Mom's favorite onto my rolling toolbox stack, shuffled across the kitchen and tried to think how I was about to put the awkward 20 pound assembly in the oven while trying to steady myself with one arm. I absolutely can't bend over or in any way hold anything in front of me, but I managed to crouch and brace myself as I took the pot and contents off the rolling cart and finagled it into the oven. Success! I was bound and determined to do this as I've been doing lately trying to live an everyday life with the hopefully temporary snafu I'm dealt. I can now make short steps with the cane, and I can navigate the stairs using the railings. I've began tinkering and fixing things again, I can't tell you how much this helps my mental state.

Thanksgiving. Well, despite it all, I am thankful. Though Jeff had to work, it was of his own doing this time, and it really won't mess up0 the holiday. Jeff was given a day off for the two half days he was to put in, I said to tell his boss he should get two days off considering it is a holiday. Guess what? Jeff told his boss, and he agreed. I get Jeff for a nice long weekend the following week. I also have him Tuesday, since he will shuttle me to and from the doc for a followup visit, where I will have an earful to unload. If all goes well, and since the crazy crowds will have died off, Jeff and I might go to the store to get me out of the house. If I can hang off the back of some sort of cart, I can walk anywhere.

I'm thankful to still be around, that I have Jeff to take care of me despite the often cranky moods and intemperate outbursts. I have a few good friends that, despite their distance, really make me feel like people care. And, at the moment, I am thankful for the hugeassed home theater setup with its 17 individual speaker cones blasting Pink Floyd as I mess around the house and play with the pooches.

I hope those in LJ are having a good day too. Without you, I'd be definitely less fortunate.

Thanks.

Date: 2013-11-28 06:50 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mrdreamjeans.livejournal.com
I am thankful that you have someone like Jeff in your life who loves you and is present during your challenges. I am thankful to know you, even if it's through the internet. I am thankful that you have befriended me.

My mom was put on a ventilator this morning and is having dialysis. Her kidneys are the main obstacle to surviving the heart valve replacement surgery.

I will be thankful for your recovery.

Hugs, Phil!

Date: 2013-11-28 07:11 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ciddyguy.livejournal.com
Yay for success, in any form! Glad you were able to finagle that damned bird into da oven. :-)

This was the best news I've read from you in a while, being able to futz around the house, listening to Pink Floyd is joyous to read. I've had music playing myself as I do a bit of picking up, and shortly will hop in da shower so I can get myself out the door by 12:30, with hot casserole in hand (in towels and such natch) to make the trek south to Olympia, with a stop in my Mom's old hood to pick up a friend of the family we've, I guess have befriended, then resume the journey. Should be fun!

Hugs to you and Jeff!

Date: 2013-11-28 08:28 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] canadad.livejournal.com
Great to hear you're in good spirits despite the crappy hand you've been dealt recently - good on you!

Have a happy, thankful day.

Date: 2013-11-28 09:21 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mort-83.livejournal.com
Was thinking of you on the drive to Ohio- glad you're hanging in there today...and so good to hear you get to enjoy your turkey with your honey!

Date: 2013-11-28 11:06 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] furr-a-bruin.livejournal.com
So glad to hear you're able to tinker and fix, and get around - if not as easily as you might wish.

Best wishes to you and Jeff, and especially for your back getting better.

Date: 2013-11-28 11:14 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dan4behr.livejournal.com
All the best Phil. I hope to hear the rest of your Thanksgiving Holiday goes well (and it tasty and delicious!)

Date: 2013-11-29 07:42 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] putzmeisterbear.livejournal.com
Having a good man in your life can make all the difference.

Date: 2013-11-29 08:34 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] maxauburn.livejournal.com
I know how much you love to fix & build things-glad you're back at it!

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